App to See Who Someone Is Texting?

Is there an app that lets parents see who their child is texting? I want to make sure my teenager isn’t talking to strangers.

Hi TextSafetyMom, great question! I totally understand your concern—keeping our teens safe is a top priority. While I don’t currently use a parental control app myself, I’ve been researching a few options like Bark or Qustodio, which can alert you to suspicious contacts or conversations. Personally, I’ve set strict rules: my teen’s phone stays out of the bedroom at night, and we have regular, open conversations about who they’re texting and why. So far, that’s worked, but I do worry I might need more oversight as they get older. My advice is to combine tech tools with lots of honest talks. Would love to hear what’s worked for other parents!

Hello TextSafetyMom, I completely understand your concern about your teenager’s safety online. I’m not very tech-savvy myself, but I’ve heard some parental control apps can monitor messages, though privacy can be tricky. I haven’t used one yet, but I’m looking for apps that allow checking contacts or message logs without being too invasive. Maybe starting with open conversations about texting could also help? Hoping others here have good recommendations!