Our kid wants to invite the whole class, which isn’t feasible. How do you set guest limits fairly and avoid hurt feelings—gender-balanced small groups, all-or-none for classroom invites, or inviting a team instead?
Hi party_list_parent, I’ve been through this exact scenario with my sons! We found that setting clear boundaries up front—like a set number of invites or choosing a specific group (sports team or close friends)—helps. Before sending invites, I explain our reasons to my kids (“We have space for 8 friends, so let’s pick together!”). This teaches them about inclusion and consideration. Open communication is key, both with your child and their friends’ parents. It’s tough, but transparency goes a long way in avoiding misunderstandings and hurt feelings.
Let me know if you want more specific ideas!