Hi everyone, meal planning is tough, and we end up wasting food sometimes. How do you manage to cook smarter and reduce waste? Thanks! — Megan
Oh, hi MeganZeroWaste! Welcome to the forum!
I totally get where you’re coming from with meal planning and food waste – it can feel like a constant battle, can’t it? With my two, a 9-year-old who suddenly decides he hates what he loved yesterday, and a 13-year-old who eats like a bottomless pit (but only certain things, of course!), it’s a real challenge to keep a lid on the waste. Some weeks are definitely better than others in our house!
A few things that have helped us (most of the time, haha!):
- The “Eat Me First” Box: This has been a game-changer! I put a clear container in the fridge and label it “Eat Me First!” Anything that’s getting close to its use-by date, leftover bits of veggies, half an onion, that last slice of cheese – it all goes in there. It’s a visual reminder for me when I’m cooking, and sometimes even the kids will grab a snack from it.
- Flexible Meal Planning: I try to plan meals, I really do! But I’ve learned to be more flexible. Instead of rigidly saying “Monday is spaghetti, Tuesday is chicken stir-fry,” I’ll plan the proteins and have a general idea, but then I’ll “shop the fridge” before I cook. So if I have carrots and broccoli that need using, that stir-fry might happen sooner, or those veggies might get roasted as a side for whatever else I’m making.
- “Leftover Remix” Night: My kids used to groan at the word “leftovers.” So, we rebranded it! Once a week, we have a “Remix Night” or a “Smorgasbord.” I’ll pull out all the little bits and bobs – leftover chicken might become chicken quesadillas, leftover rice could be fried rice, extra roasted veggies can go into a frittata or on a homemade pizza. It’s amazing how much you can use up when you get a bit creative!
- Freezer is Your BFF: Seriously, my freezer is my hero. I freeze leftover pasta sauce, small portions of cooked meat, bread ends for breadcrumbs, overripe bananas for smoothies (my 9-year-old loves making those). If I’ve made too much soup, I’ll freeze it in individual portions for quick lunches.
- Smaller Portions (Especially for the Kids): I’ve learned to serve smaller portions initially, especially to my youngest. He can always ask for more if he’s still hungry. This has cut down on a lot of half-eaten plates.
- Get the Kids Involved (Sometimes!): This is hit or miss, but sometimes if they help choose a meal or prepare part of it (even just washing veggies), they’re more likely to eat it. My 13-year-old is actually getting pretty good at suggesting ways to use up ingredients.
It’s definitely an ongoing process, Megan, and some weeks are a total win and others… well, let’s just say the compost bin gets a feast! Don’t be too hard on yourself. Every little bit helps.
Hope some of these ideas might spark something for you! Let us know if you find any brilliant tricks yourself!
Warmly,
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Hello Megan, that’s such a wonderful question! It’s something my husband and I are trying to get better at, too. It feels like you blink and that bag of lettuce has gone bad. Your question about cooking smarter really got me thinking.
You know, it’s funny, your topic made me think about something else I worry about constantly with my grandkids, Leo and Maya. It feels like we’re trying to manage two very different kinds of ‘consumption’ these days: what they eat and what they see online. We want them to have a healthy diet of good food, and a healthy ‘diet’ of online content, too, without all the junk.
I want so badly to protect them from some of the things they might stumble upon, but I also know they need their independence. It’s a fine line to walk!
I’ll be the first to admit, I’m not the most tech-savvy person. My phone is mostly for calls and pictures of the grandkids! But I’m determined to learn how to guide them. That’s why I’ve started looking into some of those parental control apps. I haven’t tried one yet, as I’m still doing my research to find the right one for our family. I think the most helpful feature would be setting time limits—kind of like telling the kids ‘no snacks before dinner!’—and maybe filtering out the really inappropriate stuff. Does anyone here have any luck with a specific app that’s easy for a grandparent to use? I’d be so grateful for recommendations.
But one simple, non-techy thing we’ve started doing is having “device-free dinners.” This actually helps with the food waste issue, too! When the phones are put away, the kids are more mindful of what they’re eating and we can all talk. It gives me a chance to casually ask what videos they’re watching on YouTube or what new game they’re playing. Just keeping that conversation open seems to be the most powerful tool of all.
Anyway, thank you for bringing up such an important topic, Megan. It’s nice to know we’re all trying to figure these things out together. I’m looking forward to hearing what others suggest for the food waste issue!
All the best,
Danielle
Hi Megan,
What a wonderful and important question! It’s something I think about often. My grandkids can be such picky eaters, and it breaks my heart to see good food go to waste.
You’re so right, meal planning is a real challenge. I find that what works one week is a total flop the next! My own mother was a master at using every last scrap, and I try to channel her wisdom. One of her best tricks was the “leftover soup” night. We’d take all the little bits of leftover veggies and meats from the week, add some broth, and make a completely new meal out of it. The grandkids think it’s a fun mystery soup!
It’s funny, I feel like I have a handle on these old-fashioned kitchen tricks, but I feel completely lost when it comes to the modern challenges of being a grandparent. Lately, my biggest worry has been keeping the kids safe online. It’s such a balancing act! I want to protect them with all my heart, but I know they need their independence to learn and grow.
I’ll be the first to admit I’m not very tech-savvy, so all the talk about apps and settings can go right over my head. But I’m determined to learn! I’ve been researching parental control apps, but I haven’t committed to one yet. I’m hoping to find something that can help me see what they’re up to without feeling like I’m spying. Things like screen time limits and maybe a feature to block inappropriate websites sound like they would be a lifesaver. If anyone here has found an app that’s simple enough for a grandparent to use, I would be so grateful for a recommendation!
For now, my best tool has just been open conversation. We make a point to have dinner together with no phones at the table—it helps us focus on our food and each other. I try to ask them about the new games they’re playing or the videos they’re watching, just to keep the lines of communication open.
Thank you for starting this conversation, Megan. It’s so helpful to know other families are navigating these same things.
Warmly,
Danielle R. Newman
Thanks for kicking off this discussion, Megan! I really appreciate your honesty about the challenge—meal planning is something we still wrestle with at my house too, especially with a hungry teenager whose cravings change daily.
What’s helped us is getting the whole family, including my teen, involved in making a weekly meal plan and shopping list. We try to stick to what we know we’ll eat and talk about using leftovers creatively—like turning last night’s roast chicken into sandwiches or quesadillas. It does take effort, but involving kids gives them a sense of responsibility and helps teach good habits.
And just like with phone usage, setting clear boundaries (like “no new groceries until we’ve used what we have”) keeps us accountable. Would love to hear any specific tricks others use!
Hello Megan, I totally get your struggle with meal planning—it’s tricky! Though I’m not very tech-savvy, I’ve found that making a simple shopping list based on what we already have helps a lot. Also, chatting openly with grandkids about using leftovers creatively turns it into a fun family activity. I haven’t tried any apps yet, but I hear some have helpful reminders for using up perishables. Would love to hear what others suggest!
Hi MeganZeroWaste, great question! Many users recommend meal planning as a key strategy—by planning your meals for the week, you can buy only what you need, reducing impulse purchases and spoilage. Additionally, proper storage techniques help extend the freshness of ingredients, and using leftovers creatively can prevent waste. Some also suggest keeping an inventory of what’s in your fridge to avoid overbuying. Incorporating these habits can make cooking more efficient and eco-friendly. Thanks for bringing up such an important topic!